My Story 

As a kid, my only professional goal was to just were a white lab coat. Seriously!

Other kids wanted to grow up and be soccer players, doctors, engineers & pop stars. All I wanted was a job that will make me look sophisticated and solve problems. People with white lab coats seemed to have all the answers when they came out of their lab.

It didn’t matter, what kind of a job, I had to do as long as it had a white lab coat

Outside of my quest to solve the world’s problems in a white lab coat, l spent my younger years exploring relationships, trying to be seen - through fights, people pleasing, and being the cool kid. Oh, by the way I could dance! When I danced, it drew people into my world, closer & closer but there was no substance in the relationships.

After the divorce of my parents my desire to change the world in a white lab coat didn’t fit into solving relationship problems. The lab coat superpower didn’t manifest to heal the pain that l felt from that broken relationship. I realized I needed to find another way to help bring ease to heart ache’s and unfullfiling relationships.

I’ve been the cool kid, the dance floor master, the brokenhearted guy, the preacher, the poet, the organizational bigot (loyal) and that was the biggest of my disappointments, I got fired without cause (whatever that mean’t). It was a shattered relationship, a time of confusion and feeling lost. That was a turning point

The turning point

From brokenness , it was then that I realized, to live life fully I had to become me.

The switch

l have seen a lot of dullness and pain in the world, struggling relationships, the hard workers don’t always succeed, kindness is weakness to be exploited, and most people don’t know why they are stuck, and most people carry trauma in their bodies, which holds them back from being authentic. Everyone wants more in their life, but not everyone knows where to begin.

I’ve always wanted a way to make a difference in relationships in a way that was authentically me.

so, I got professional training …

I got trained as a Marriage & Family Therapist, l specialized further and became an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, as if that was not enough, l invested further in training as a couples therapist.

As if that was the last of it… I realized trauma is everywhere so I spent another 3 years of indepth somatic trauma practitioner training to work with complex trauma. All this became the closest alternative to wearing a white lab coat and coming up with solutions for peoples relationship problems.

And now almost at the finish line of a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, I can honestly say being human and empathetic is the super power that has gotten me closer towards holding space for people’s vulnabilities, pain and to give hope.

Truly with this superpower I can help people understand they are not alone. I can help those who feel unseen, unwanted, & unlovable feel that their story matters. their pain matters. And that better intimacy and healing is possible.

Sometimes when you’re in a dark place, you think you’ve been buried, But actually you have been planted, Now bloom! - Christine Caine

Here you are now!

Acknowledging that something feels off in your relationship or within your own personal experiences of intimacy is never easy. It's even harder to admit that you might need help. I get it. The idea of opening up the door to your vulnerable places and most private parts of your life can feel daunting.

But here’s the thing—struggling alone is not only painful but can also prevent you from seeing the possibilities that lie beyond the current challenges. Whether it's unresolved conflicts, fading connections, or unexplored personal desires, everyone experiences phases where things don’t seem to align. It’s perfectly human. I’ve been there. You have come to the right place for help.

Nice to meet you!

My Values

  • At the core of everything I do is to keep it real. No fluff, no sugar-coating—just honest, authentic support.

    When we work together, you can trust that I'll be transparent, respecting your journey without judgment. Integrity isn't just a buzzword for me; it's a way to connect.

    Whether we're tackling tough topics or celebrating breakthroughs, you'll find consistency, sincerity, and a genuine commitment to your well-being.

  • Ubuntu, an ancient African philosophy, teaches "I am because we are." It's a reminder that our connections shape us.

    My practice is grounded in this belief, fostering an inclusive space where everyone, no matter your background or identity, is respected and valued.

    Every story matters, every voice is important. By embracing our interconnectedness, we create a supportive environment for individual and collective growth.

  • I believe that everyone possesses the strength to overcome their challenges, but sometimes, we need a little guidance to tap into that potential.

    My approach focuses on empowering individuals and organizations to understand and articulate needs, desires, and emotions confidently.

    By fostering a sense of empowerment, I aim to help people feel more in control of their journey towards a healthier and more fulfilling partnership.

What l do

01

Speaker

I will help your audience unlock the potential for deeper understanding and personal growth with transformative workshops, retreats, and organizational seminars. I specialize in trauma, sexual wellness, sexual harassment, and relationships (couples retreats & seminars), Your audience will be engaged, challenged towards change and equipped with tools to move beyond.

02

Therapist

As a therapist specializing in Sex Therapy, Trauma, and Couples Therapy, I guide individuals and couples through transformative journeys. With deep insights into human connection and healing, I empower clients to overcome challenges, rebuild intimacy, and live life more fully.

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Consultant

As a consultant for practicing professionals, schools, for-profit and non-profit organizations, I provide expert guidance on relational dynamics and sexual wellness. My seminars and training sessions address critical topics such as sexual harassment, fostering healthier relationships, and empowering healthy organizational culture.

Areas of Expertise

  • l work with committed couples in enhancing intimacy and transforming communication. I help couples understand the complexities of sex and love, offering insights that transform relationships.

    My approach includes tailored coaching for deepening emotional connections, healthy communication and revitalizing sexual expression, making love and intimacy more fulfilling.

  • l provide consulting services on sexual wellness to organizations and professionals seeking expert advice for workplace safety, school educational programs and client care.

    I use the psychology of human behaviour to offer unique insights and strategies that enhance team cohesion and safety, and organizational health.

  • As a relationship and sex therapist, l use a blend of therapeutic techniques, trauma processing and tools which help address emotional issues, improve mental health, and achieve greater personal and relational fulfillment.

    My practice is dedicated to supporting clients in their journey towards healing and self-discovery.

  • As an engaging international speaker with over 10 years of experience l have discovered the keys to captivating audiences at retreats, workshops, and events. l have a knack for making complex concepts easy to understand in engaging ways

    l inspire participants to explore new perspectives on emotional intelligence, sex & love in their personal growth, communication, and relationships, fostering an environment of learning and connection.

  • I bring a deep understanding of how trauma impacts relationships and sexual well-being. I use a trauma-informed approach that focuses on healing relational ruptures and addressing sexual trauma & dysfunctions rooted in unmet attachment needs.

    By blending trauma-focused therapeutic techniques with my expertise in relationships and sexual health, I help individuals understand the impact of trauma, rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection.

As a consultant, international speaker, and relationship expert and AASECT Certified sex therapist, I blend these skills to provide transformative workshops & seminars, insightful consulting, and compassionate therapy to empower people to deepen their connections and rediscover joy and organizations to realize transformation.